- A- Both face away from each other and go asleep?
- B- Face each other in that awkward position?
- C- Both lie flat on your backs staring at the ceiling?
The answer my friends is D. You spoon like you've never spooned before. Like it was going out of fashion!
So what is spooning? If your genuinely asking that question then you deserve a slap!
Definition of Spooning
Spooning is a position in bed but does not imply sex. It is a form of couple cuddle snuggle where you lie on your side and one party snuggles up against the others back- in effect "spooning" or laddeling the other.
So who "Spoons" who?
Some may think it is tradition for the male to spoon the female, however this is not true. While the male usually displays his sub conscious need to protect "his woman" by playing the role of the "big spoon", it is also possible for the female to play this role. Bored with being the little spoon the female is known to "switch it up" from time to time. Men don't be afraid of playing the little spoon. While it took me some time to settle into it I discovered it was most enjoyable.
WARNING!!! Men, spooning is not an invitation for sex!! You are not"in there" when a girl invites you to spoon. Consider it a friendly gesture.
So go on kids! Spoon your lady or friend for that matter but keep it strictly PG.
Let me hear your comments on your spooning adventures.
